Meeting @ Bangkok - Feb 09

Went to Bangkok for 2D1N meeting with my boss. Had a lot of fun. Thailand colleague were very "warm" brought us to fantastic restaurant for yummy dinner. Here are some pictures that I've taken.
  That was for dinner...
And then, on the second day, while walking along the street.... i saw this quite interesting food...

I have more pics to share but, the connection is damn bad... grr... next time la.. :)

A lesson to learn...

A little bird was flying south for the winter. It was so cold, the bird froze and fell to the ground in a large field. While it was lying there a cow came by and dropped some dung on it. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, it began to realise how warm it was. The dung was actually thawing him out!

He lay there all warm and happy and soon began to sing for joy...

A passing car heard the bird singing and came to investigate. Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and prompty dug him out and ATE him!

The moral of the story are..

1. Not everyone who drops shit on your is your enemy
2. Not everyone who gets your out from shit is your friend
3. And when you are in Deeepp Shiiitt keep your mouth shut!

Tai Yang Bing ("Sun" Biscuit)

If you guys been to Taiwan, you may heard of this biscuit. Ei, no necessary la, I never been there... but i know this biscuit! haha... anyway... it is very famous (gua...) lol... Kelly Chen (HK singer) loves this... it is a MUST to buy thing for her if she goes to Taiwan (according to her lah.. :P). Unfortunately it is available only in Taiwan. Miss it so much!!

The other day I went to Pavilion.. jeng jeng jeng... and i saw thissss bisscuiitt... omg omg.. KL version of Tai Yang Ping!! :) RM2.00 each, taste great... not as good as the original ones lah.


And the inti....
Yummy! :) I think the filling is quite sweet..

Did I Marry the Wrong Person?

This article was taken from somewhere, sent by Valerie to me :) enjoy...


During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).


Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.



People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU .
 Falling in love is easy . It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades.It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship . Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies , instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown . People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make"love .

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling. Remember this always :

"God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."

This is a very good article. Those who are still single may learn something from here... Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...